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How Servant Leaders Can Remain Motivated In Their Roles
People rarely focus on how leaders remain motivated. But it makes sense. Often, it feels that the company needs to focus on those who are not in leadership positions regarding motivation. Leaders have power, a higher salary, and a ‘better’ footing in the company than anyone else. They have all the motivation they need, right? Wrong! First things first, money is not the best motivation. Secondly, leaders need motivation, especially when time has passed. When you first started, you had many goals to motivate you—maybe the leadership position you are in right now, a higher salary, or fewer working hours—all things you could have already achieved as a leader. So,…
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How Leaders Can Inspire Healthy Competition Without Crossing The Line
Healthy competition was not something I thought could exist for the longest time. As someone who sadly went to a school system where missing two marks on a test was punished rather than rewarded, I never liked any form of competition. In school, it literally pinned us against each other. And just when I thought things could not get worse, I got a job! And I learned very quickly that NOBODY at work is your friend. It was horrible! After that, you could not convince me that competition was good. What do you mean it can bring out the best in people? If what I saw was the best, then…
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How To Improve Loyalty Through Leadership
Often, it sounds impossible to improve loyalty among people who are not in leadership positions. Many employees are forthcoming about being in it for their own benefit, ready to jump at the next opportunity. I remember being just another worker, and loyalty to my leader and company was not even in my vocabulary. I saw it as a job, but I never once considered it to be a career, which is the mindset of a lot of people. But it’s understandable. Working under leaders or in companies that make you feel replaceable is often not the way to cultivate loyalty. If your team feels replaceable, unappreciated, and treated more like…
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A Quick Guide To The Delicate Dance That Is Leadership Networking
Leadership networking is one of those things you need to get behind in your position. When you first started networking, you were probably looking for a well-paying job, a better opportunity, the chance to be in a leadership role or build a network to help you in future endeavors. So, what is leadership networking about? It involves creating relationships that help the organization. As an employee, you were mostly in it for yourself. As a leader, you have more than yourself to think about, such as your team and the good of the organization. Basically, you are in it to make the company stronger, not just yourself. It’s a responsibility…
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A Man With No Friends: Too Much of A Red Flag Or Just What You Need?
Just when you thought nothing could possibly surprise you, you came across him—a man with no friends. Well, at first, you did not realize it. Then you started to notice the signs. His stories barely involve anyone else. And when they do, it’s mostly a sibling or a coworker. He has never mentioned a high school or hobby friend he will visit. He’s happy to meet your friends but has not introduced you to his. So you finally ask, and he confirms that he is not hiding you; rather, he does not have many friends. You are relieved because the first thing is always worse. But then, it hits you:…
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The Best Leaders Are Led: Allowing Yourself To Be Guided Makes You Better At Guiding
The best leaders have many good qualities, follow certain rules, and always make connections with those they are leading. It’s hard to imagine that one of the rules leaders must follow is allowing themselves to be led. Okay, so maybe it is not a rule, but it definitely improves the quality of leadership you offer. But aren’t leaders always supposed to be leading? How can they get anything done if they are waiting for others to show them the way? Well, ‘being led’ in this context does not mean sitting around and waiting for others to come up with direction and ideas. You are still a leader, but you are…
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Dating An Older Guy: Understanding What He’s Expecting
Perhaps you’ve never seen yourself as the woman who would be dating an older guy. Or maybe that’s the kind of man you’ve always wanted but have yet to experience if he will ‘treat you right.’ That’s why you’re here, right? Dating an older man can be fun or challenging. But like most other relationships, it has no ‘big secret.’ Like any other relationship, it will take hard work. But, of course, there are some differences in experiences and expectations. So, while it is just like dating a regular guy, there are perhaps a few things we can do to minimize the chances of culture shock. So, dating explorer, keep…
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Work Habits All Leaders Should Encourage
In every workplace, work habits make the difference between a team that thrives and a team that struggles. The right work habits boost productivity, improve teamwork, and create a good environment where everyone feels motivated and supported. On the flip side, poor work habits can cause frustration, lower morale, and lead to missed deadlines or incomplete tasks. This is why leaders need to pay close attention to the work habits they’re encouraging—and discouraging—in their teams. Good work habits help employees stay focused, meet their goals, and work better together. For example, a team communicating well can avoid misunderstandings and solve problems faster. However, it’s just as important to recognize and…
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What Faith Means to Me
Faith is an important aspect in the lives of billions of people on planet Earth, but what is faith exactly? Even the dictionary has a hard time describing it with most major publications giving multiple definitions. Typically, faith is defined as “a strong belief in something of which there is no proof.” However you want to define it, faith is nothing if not personal. My faith in Jesus is a core tenant of my life and a big part of who I am. It affects just about every part of my life from my marriage to my friendships and my influence as a teacher. I’ve been pondering my faith this…
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How Long Should You Wait When A Guy Says He Needs Time?
If your boyfriend, husband, or someone you are seeing suddenly says he needs time, it can be devastating. Things were going so well; how could he suddenly say he wants some time away? And even if there is tension in the relationship, nobody wants to be on the receiving end of that statement. So what does it mean when your boyfriend or date says he needs time? In most cases, he’s not ready to answer your question or commit to what you’re asking because he’s not sure. Hence, he needs time. So yeah, it’s just like you when you need time to think things over. The good news is that…

























