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  • man with no friends
    The Male Mind for Women

    A Man With No Friends: Too Much of A Red Flag Or Just What You Need?

    October 9, 2024 /

    Just when you thought nothing could possibly surprise you, you came across him—a man with no friends. Well, at first, you did not realize it. Then you started to notice the signs. His stories barely involve anyone else. And when they do, it’s mostly a sibling or a coworker. He has never mentioned a high school or hobby friend he will visit. He’s happy to meet your friends but has not introduced you to his.  So you finally ask, and he confirms that he is not hiding you; rather, he does not have many friends. You are relieved because the first thing is always worse. But then, it hits you:…

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    A Guide to Supporting Men Through Emotional Challenges

    December 4, 2023
  • the best leaders
    Career and Leadership

    The Best Leaders Are Led: Allowing Yourself To Be Guided Makes You Better At Guiding 

    October 7, 2024 /

    The best leaders have many good qualities, follow certain rules, and always make connections with those they are leading. It’s hard to imagine that one of the rules leaders must follow is allowing themselves to be led. Okay, so maybe it is not a rule, but it definitely improves the quality of leadership you offer. But aren’t leaders always supposed to be leading? How can they get anything done if they are waiting for others to show them the way? Well, ‘being led’ in this context does not mean sitting around and waiting for others to come up with direction and ideas. You are still a leader, but you are…

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    Leadership Skills: How To Set Expectations The Right Way

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    Bad Employment: When to Walk Away

    July 1, 2024
  • dating an older guy
    The Male Mind for Women

    Dating An Older Guy: Understanding What He’s Expecting

    October 4, 2024 /

    Perhaps you’ve never seen yourself as the woman who would be dating an older guy. Or maybe that’s the kind of man you’ve always wanted but have yet to experience if he will ‘treat you right.’ That’s why you’re here, right? Dating an older man can be fun or challenging. But like most other relationships, it has no ‘big secret.’ Like any other relationship, it will take hard work. But, of course, there are some differences in experiences and expectations.  So, while it is just like dating a regular guy, there are perhaps a few things we can do to minimize the chances of culture shock. So, dating explorer, keep…

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    Is There A Right Way To Emotionally Connect With A Man?

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    Signs He’s Pulling Away from Your Relationship

    December 3, 2023
  • work habits
    Career and Leadership

    Work Habits All Leaders Should Encourage

    October 2, 2024 /

    In every workplace, work habits make the difference between a team that thrives and a team that struggles. The right work habits boost productivity, improve teamwork, and create a good environment where everyone feels motivated and supported. On the flip side, poor work habits can cause frustration, lower morale, and lead to missed deadlines or incomplete tasks. This is why leaders need to pay close attention to the work habits they’re encouraging—and discouraging—in their teams. Good work habits help employees stay focused, meet their goals, and work better together. For example, a team communicating well can avoid misunderstandings and solve problems faster. However, it’s just as important to recognize and…

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    Can you Build A Legacy In Servant Leadership?

    August 12, 2024
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    Burnout to Bounty: Confessions of a De-Motivated Dad Struggling Amid Chaos

    February 16, 2024
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    The Art of Balancing Employee Needs With Company Goals for Servant Leaders

    July 31, 2024
  • faith
    Faith Inspiration

    What Faith Means to Me

    October 1, 2024 /

    Faith is an important aspect in the lives of billions of people on planet Earth, but what is faith exactly? Even the dictionary has a hard time describing it with most major publications giving multiple definitions. Typically, faith is defined as “a strong belief in something of which there is no proof.” However you want to define it, faith is nothing if not personal. My faith in Jesus is a core tenant of my life and a big part of who I am. It affects just about every part of my life from my marriage to my friendships and my influence as a teacher. I’ve been pondering my faith this…

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    Faithful Finances: Managing Money According to Biblical Principles

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  • needs time
    The Male Mind for Women

    How Long Should You Wait When A Guy Says He Needs Time?

    September 30, 2024 /

    If your boyfriend, husband, or someone you are seeing suddenly says he needs time, it can be devastating. Things were going so well; how could he suddenly say he wants some time away? And even if there is tension in the relationship, nobody wants to be on the receiving end of that statement.  So what does it mean when your boyfriend or date says he needs time? In most cases, he’s not ready to answer your question or commit to what you’re asking because he’s not sure. Hence, he needs time. So yeah, it’s just like you when you need time to think things over. The good news is that…

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    A Man With No Friends: Too Much of A Red Flag Or Just What You Need?

    October 9, 2024
  • learning from your mistakes
    Career and Leadership

    Learning From Your Mistakes As A Leader Can Be Harder But Not Impossible

    September 27, 2024 /

    When you are a leader, everything can feel a little harder, especially learning from your mistakes. Making a mistake or experiencing failure is challenging when all eyes are on you. Which they often are if you are in a management position or leading a team. While the aftermath can be tough, there is intense pressure to learn from the mistake. Nobody wants it to happen again, especially not you. You are probably beating yourself up about it, scared of what people think of you. ‘Leaders shouldn’t make mistakes’ is a false phrase. Anyone can make a mistake. Just because you’re in management does not mean you suddenly stopped being human.…

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    Depression after losing your job, guide for men

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  • be persistent
    Blog

    How To Be Persistent With A Woman Without Being Annoying

    September 25, 2024 /

    A lot of people will tell you to be persistent when you really like someone. And it’s good advice. Being persistent means you show intent, letting this person know that you are their only focus. A lot of times, you can lose someone who really likes you by being too vague about your intentions or failing to make it clear what you want.  It’s good to feel wanted. So if you really like someone, make sure they know it. Now comes the ‘but.’ Unfortunately, sometimes persistence does not come out as romantic. It becomes pushy, annoying, and desperate. None of these things will make her want you more.  Dating can…

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    Dating Tips for First Date: What to Say, Do, and Avoid for a Great Impression

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  • Life and Family Leadership
    Career and Leadership

    A Man Worth Admiring: What One Ukrainian Grandpa Taught Me About Life and Family Leadership

    September 24, 2024 /

    Perhaps the most defining characteristic of a great man is how they handle adversity. When times get tough, and we’re stretched to our natural limits, the true character of a person reveals itself. As a part-time missionary and full-time traveler, I’ve been blessed to have three lifetimes’ worth of experiences in my short 42 years. However, many of those memorable encounters were not joyful in nature. I’ve served in some of the roughest places on the planet and witnessed true tragedy more than once, but the thing that always blows my mind in these inconceivable situations is the strength of the human spirit. When Russia dropped the first bombs on…

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  • people who don't like you
    Career and Leadership

    How To Lead People Who Don’t Like You: Guide For Dedicated Leaders

    September 23, 2024 /

    You may develop a teeny tiny hatred for leadership the day you have to lead people who don’t like you. Unfortunately, it’s a situation that anyone can fall into. You could be promoted to leading a project or get transferred to another department. You could even get a management role at a new company. Everything will seem normal until it isn’t. You notice some resistance, team members avoiding you, and some just outright showing that they do not like you.  You may be the kind of leader who believes you don’t have to be liked. But sometimes, when you lead people who do not like you, it becomes challenging to…

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