There are those days when your boyfriend needs to retreat to his shell and then emerge a better and more loving man. It happens sometimes, and you’ve been asking yourself why he’s been doing it. Is it because he’s getting exhausted, or is he hiding something? The answer could be less evil and visible than you would think. You could be dealing with your boyfriend’s boundaries. It sucks to think that he would even place boundaries in your relationship. But they are necessary. Most people did not grow up with adults who communicated healthily and respectfully. Setting healthy boundaries was not exactly something we learned from them. What if setting…

If you are active on social media, you must be confused about what men want from women. The requirements seem as diverse as they are non-inclusive. In addition, what men want seems to be changing every few months. We all want something from a relationship. Women are more vocal about their expectations and needs. They are rarely afraid of asking for what they want from their partners. But it is not to say that women do not have secret desires. Men are a different case. They struggle to be open about what they want in a relationship. Especially if they think it will affect the relationship. So, believe the rumors:…

Men are supposed to be simple communicators, like a yes or no questionnaire. What they say is supposed to mean exactly that. Men are supposed to be straightforward in communication. No dropping hints or struggling to express themselves. Good theory, right? Well, the reality goes a little different. If you have ever been in a relationship with a man, you probably know that sometimes, what he says vs what he really means, are siblings, not twins. But wait, there’s a little more to this. Men try not to be complicated by saying what they mean. However, they are not the best at expressing themselves through long texts and deep explanations.…

‘Love language’ is something you will hear everyone constantly talk about. But it is not a 2020 phenomenon. No, the concept of the love language goes back to 1992 when Gary Chapman shared his masterpiece ‘The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate.’ Years later, this book remains relevant, birthing ‘What is my love language’ quizzes and articles about maximizing your love language. Some pieces even explain the differences between men’s and women’s preferred love languages. It’s fun to discover these things! But it can also help you understand your partner better. That said, what is your boyfriend’s love language? I get it; it’s wild to…

‘Yeap, he’s definitely breaking up with me,’ is probably what you are thinking right now. Your boyfriend, husband, or partner is pulling away, and you can’t help but think the worst. So, is he going to break up with you? Maybe! Terrifying thought, right? But wait, is he actually being distant, or is something else going on when he’s pulling away? Men are far more complicated than they get credit for. So, it is possible that he’s not pulling from the relationship. You do not want to think the worst but want to be ready just in case. Unfortunately, running around with uncertainty could cause more problems in the relationship.…

Ever heard the dreaded ‘I need space?’ Just the thought of someone saying it makes my heart sink a little. And most people react this way. It is why most men avoid saying it even though they really need space. The myth of emotional distance in men? A little truth there. Your man hits a new emotional level, then poof! He’s suddenly MIA. You are left wondering if you did something wrong or if he plans to end the relationship. But hold up– don’t fear the worst just yet! Men express their emotions differently and become withdrawn after making a huge emotional connection. I know it sounds counteractive, but it…

Ladies, let’s address something that has long perplexed women: Why do men enjoy their “caves?” You know the feeling: you had a disagreement, and you need to talk. Yet he remains completely silent as soon as you want to talk with him. Today we explore this mysterious phenomenon and dive into some relationship advice for women everywhere on what to do when he’s gone radio silent. The scene: here you are post-argument, with emotions running high and ready to dissect every word, gesture, and sigh. Your question to him might be “Can we talk please?” yet instead his silence feels more like hibernation than anything else – this is his…