Career and Leadership
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What Management Has Taught Me About Dealing With a Difficult Employee
There came a time when I stopped being an employee—at least, that’s what it felt like when I was promoted to management. My plan was to be a good manager; nobody really plans for less. My goal was to help the team I managed with no problems. I had never considered dealing with a different employee. Actually, any employee can feel a little difficult from time to time, depending on the situation. But there are some that you can’t help but feel are out to get you. As I learned, managing a difficult employee is one of those things about management you can never escape. It could be someone who’s…
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Is Happiness Really That Complicated?
What is happiness and joy? Are these actual concepts we can truly understand, and if so what would be the importance of understanding them? I’ve often compartmentalized these concepts, and wondered if truly understanding them is worth spending mental energy on. After all these are personal emotions that only impact our own person right, or maybe not? I was at a conference several years ago. I had to step outside for a brief moment to take a phone call and on my way back inside I crossed by someone sitting just outside the conference door on a bench, seemingly staring into space. They were literally right by the door so…
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Employment Skills Every Man Needs To Stay Ahead
It seems that the world never stops changing, especially in employment. In less than five years, we went from office setups to remote working and then found balance in a hybrid setup. And the dust is yet to settle on a lot more things. In the middle of all these changes, I could not help but wonder if some employment skills will hold their own even as the workplace changes. There was a time when being great at math was all you needed to land a job. But then, digital calculators and computer software made it a little less impressive. So, what are the skills that will stand the test…
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Forever Hunting For A Job: Lessons You Should Never Forget
One of the few things I have learned about freelancing is that I am a job seeker for as long as I’m working. Yes, there are benefits like working your own hours and having free time beyond the weekday. But you are always hunting for a job—which is what most people are doing right now. After COVID, many people discovered interesting things about work. Some found out that companies were willing to drop them at the sight of danger. Others realized that they were not doing as well as they thought. Some even got epiphanies, finally accepting that they might not want to pursue their current jobs long-term. These and…
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Why A Career Swap Is Good For You: Job Hunt Differently
I remember many times when I was out of work, wondering what my next move would be. I would often joke to friends and family about taking any job that came across—even being a surgeon! I said it as a joke, but somewhere deep inside, I was considering a full-on career swap. I’m still not a doctor, but there’s no reason you shouldn’t be one—or anything else. One thing I admire about people who make rash decisions is that they can switch their careers in a heartbeat if they do not suit their lifestyles. Sometimes, it’s necessary to take that leap of faith. So, if you are sitting in your…
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Leadership When You Are Stressed: Don’t Take It Out On Others!
Imagine one of the worst days for you as a manager. It’s one of those problems only you can handle, and it is taking a toll on you. You walk into the office and notice the same aura that you’re carrying. Does your team know? Yes. Is it affecting them? Yes. When you are stressed as a leader, it can radiate on your team. Your team members or employees see stress as unusual or erratic behavior. They have no idea what you are thinking or planning, and it freaks them out! Obviously, it’s not what you wanted to happen. And you still need to be a leader of your team. …
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Talk Less, and Lead More: Active Listening Skills For Leaders
If there is one thing employees struggle with, it’s talking to their bosses for one reason or another. But the worst one could be because their boss just doesn’t listen. Unfortunately, your employees will never tell you things if they know you won’t listen. If you are a leader in 2024, you don’t want to be this guy. You want to be the guy who masters active listening skills for leaders. You may struggle to listen to employees because your mind juggles a million things at once. It’s like juggling oranges; an employee offering feedback just adds to the bunch. You might nod, but focusing on that single orange is…
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How a More Active Approach to Faith Made Me a Better Leader
While it might be a stereotype, I believe there is some truth to the old adage that men aren’t as emotional as women. There are certainly outliers, but on the whole, I’d say it’s harder for us to get in touch with our emotions, and most of us don’t give it much effort. This disconnect with emotion has a tendency to run over into the faith arena too, or at least it does for me. Don’t get me wrong there are times when I do feel that emotional connection to God, but that comes and goes. Does that mean my faith is broken? I used to think so. I used…
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Be a Better Leader Have a Richer Life!
One of the reasons I would never run for office is because I would likely never know when to stop. I mean, if you are the president, you have no days off, no vacation time. As long as you are breathing, you are working. So how do they manage? If they still have families, they may have stopped juggling work and personal life. Maybe they took a page out of ‘Total Leadership: Be a Better Leader Have a Richer Life’ by Stewart D. Friedman. Possibly, they found a way to enhance their personal lives while being good leaders. But even if they didn’t, you can. The concept of ‘total leadership’…
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Servant Leadership Works Best When Embracing Vulnerability
Servant leadership is a long-standing concept. Some of the best leaders practiced it, from Abraham Lincoln during the Civil War to Herb Kelleher, the Former CEO of Southwest Airlines. For the longest time, the focus was on the growth and success of the company or an organization. However, servant leadership focuses on the people who build the organization. And believe it or not, servant leadership works best when embracing vulnerability. I’ve seen several TV shows, and one of the recurring episodes involves a team member getting promoted. It’s all joy and celebration until the character realizes they must be in charge of the very people they worked with at the…


























