Ever felt like you’re losing yourself in the hustle of being a leader? You know, those days where it’s like, “Where did I go in all of this?” One day, you’re in charge of handling projects, managing people, and making calls. And the next thing you know, you’re drowning in emails, solving everyone else’s problems, and barely recognizing the person you see in the mirror. It’s like you’re leading everything… except yourself. Take a moment to think about the guy on the dollar bill for a second. George Washington’s often praised for being a great leader, but what people don’t always talk about is how hard he worked to stay…

People rarely focus on how leaders remain motivated. But it makes sense. Often, it feels that the company needs to focus on those who are not in leadership positions regarding motivation. Leaders have power, a higher salary, and a ‘better’ footing in the company than anyone else. They have all the motivation they need, right? Wrong! First things first, money is not the best motivation. Secondly, leaders need motivation, especially when time has passed. When you first started, you had many goals to motivate you—maybe the leadership position you are in right now, a higher salary, or fewer working hours—all things you could have already achieved as a leader. So,…

Leadership networking is one of those things you need to get behind in your position. When you first started networking, you were probably looking for a well-paying job, a better opportunity, the chance to be in a leadership role or build a network to help you in future endeavors.  So, what is leadership networking about? It involves creating relationships that help the organization. As an employee, you were mostly in it for yourself. As a leader, you have more than yourself to think about, such as your team and the good of the organization. Basically, you are in it to make the company stronger, not just yourself. It’s a responsibility…

A lot of people will tell you to be persistent when you really like someone. And it’s good advice. Being persistent means you show intent, letting this person know that you are their only focus. A lot of times, you can lose someone who really likes you by being too vague about your intentions or failing to make it clear what you want.  It’s good to feel wanted. So if you really like someone, make sure they know it. Now comes the ‘but.’ Unfortunately, sometimes persistence does not come out as romantic. It becomes pushy, annoying, and desperate. None of these things will make her want you more.  Dating can…

When you broke up, you probably did not see yourself reconnecting with your ex. Well, here you are, and I bet you are excited. But that’s not all you are feeling, right? Otherwise, you would not be here. You are a little (or a lot) worried that you will end up heartbroken and struggling to get yourself together, just like the last time you broke up. Every time you flash back to those memories, you are asking yourself if taking another try at it is even worth it. You dont want to be moping around for days feeling sorry for yourself. But you are not willing to back down. So,…

So, is online dating for men absolutely crazy? No, and yes. But really, that’s what online dating is for most people: awkward, exciting, scary, and essentially, a lot of possibilities. If you’re here, you are probably considering online dating because you’ve never done it. You could also be looking for answers to why your experience has so far been crazy. Or you are wondering if there is a master guide on hacking the system for a wonderful experience.  Whatever the reason, it’s already been established that online dating for men isn’t easy. If you are the first guy, make sure you understand it. If you are the second guy, you…

I’ve been teaching middle school for 16 years now, and I can attest that middle schoolers are a special breed of crazy. On the whole, they’re hormone-riddled, not sure who they are yet, and stuck somewhere in between little kid and teenager. This haziness is reflected in almost every aspect of their personalities. It’s a tough time for many, as they transition from being under their parent’s gaze to a bit more independence (in most cases). These years are full of insecurity. Classmates come down hard on everything from what they eat to how they dress or comb their hair. This ridicule is looming around every corner. You might be…

If you are in a long-distance relationship, then I probably shouldn’t tell you that more than 35% of them fail. Yikes, right? Not really, though. There are a lot more statistics that should give you courage about your chances. More than that, statistics should never define how your long-distance relationship turns out. So, if this is your first time in such a relationship, take a breather and focus less on the numbers. Getting caught up in the statistics is one way to lose before you can win.  As a man, you are going to experience the ups and downs of long-distance relationships. You’re going to wonder if she’s talking to…