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  • spiritual leader
    Faith Inspiration

    How I’m Becoming the Spiritual Leader in Our Home (Despite Not Being a Natural Leader)

    August 13, 2024 /

    What does it mean to be the spiritual leader of the household? It’s something I’ve been thinking about a lot lately. If you’re a Christian, then you know that biblically men are called to be the spiritual leader of the family, but what does that entail? How do we balance implementing that God-given authority with mutual respect, kindness, and freedom? If we’re honest with ourselves, it’s a big task! Accepting a place of leadership requires a certain amount of vulnerability. Your words, actions, and decisions are on display—scrutinized by the family…and others. It can be a scary role to step into, especially if you aren’t a natural leader. In almost…

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    Developing Emotional Strength: How Faith Helps Build Inner Resilience

    November 20, 2024
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    The Friday Before Easter

    March 29, 2024
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    Servant Leadership: What Jesus Teaches Us About Leading at Home and Work

    October 29, 2024
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    Career and Leadership

    Can you Build A Legacy In Servant Leadership?

    August 12, 2024 /

    As a leader, it is only natural to want to build a legacy in your role or other positions of power. Who doesn’t want a great legacy? To be the guy employees still speak fondly about even though they started years after you left the company. So, what kind of leaders build a great legacy? I bet a servant leader was not your first answer. But it’s okay; the term does not always scream ‘destined to be great’. Yet it offers a great chance to build a legacy that will keep shaping the company long after you are gone. Leaders who build legacies may not be that different from the…

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    Learning From Your Mistakes As A Leader Can Be Harder But Not Impossible

    September 27, 2024
    discovering your purpose

    Discovering Your Purpose At Work Beyond Making Money

    September 6, 2024
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    Be a Better Leader Have a Richer Life!

    April 26, 2024
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    Career and Leadership

    Why Servant Leadership Is Best For Work Engagement

    August 9, 2024 /

    If you are a leader, then you have probably had your fair share of struggles with work engagement. Keeping employees engaged is not easy. And I’ll tell you right now, a pizza party is not going to cut it. Some companies keep a rather low priority for work or employee engagement. The small HR teams, low-cost solutions to employee problems, and zero effort to challenge how things have always been are dead giveaways. Despite what people think, work engagement is not an HR issue; it’s a leadership issue. Why? The way you lead sets the attitude for the whole organization and, thus, employees.  So, if you are the kind of…

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    Leading With Less: Guide To Keeping The Team Moving With Limited Resources

    August 23, 2024
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    Talk Less, and Lead More: Active Listening Skills For Leaders

    June 10, 2024
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    Why A Career Swap Is Good For You: Job Hunt Differently

    June 14, 2024
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    Career and Leadership

    Finding Your Passion and Aligning it With Your Leadership Goals.

    August 7, 2024 /

    If someone had told me when I was younger that finding your passion is the key to leadership, I would have been skeptical. But not for any other reason than I thought about leadership differently back then. You can probably relate. I used to think that once you become a leader, that’s all you had to be. Your passions, values, and beliefs are replaced with what I imagined was a leadership bubble. You had to think, believe, and be passionate about what the role told you to be. I’m not sure if this is how other people viewed leadership, but when I became a leader, I realized it was wrong.…

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    How to Volunteer for Charity Work: Servant Leadership in the Community

    April 3, 2024
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    Why Can’t I Just Make a Decision? These Simple Steps Are (Slowly) Changing My Indecisive Leadership Style.

    July 16, 2024
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    Servant Leadership Works Best When Embracing Vulnerability

    April 16, 2024
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    Career and Leadership

    Serving Under Stress: What Volunteering in Ukraine Taught Me About Leadership and Relationships

    August 6, 2024 /

    Volunteering in a conflict zone was one of the biggest leadership and people skills tests I have ever undertaken. My experience in Ukraine, during the first few weeks of the current war, taught me a truckload about leadership and how immense stress can be channeled into a laser-focused desire to uplift and support others. My wife and I were traveling in Estonia when the first bombs were dropped on Kyiv. We quickly decided that we had the time, abilities, and responsibility to help out in any way we could. We signed on with an American crisis relief team that my wife’s family had former affiliations with. We started as team…

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    Everyday Strategies to Lead by Example at Work

    April 5, 2024
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    How Servant Leaders Can Support Staff Mental Health

    August 30, 2024
    finding your passion

    Finding Your Passion and Aligning it With Your Leadership Goals.

    August 7, 2024
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    Blog

    Surviving a long-distance Relationship: A Guide For Men

    August 5, 2024 /

    If you are in a long-distance relationship, then I probably shouldn’t tell you that more than 35% of them fail. Yikes, right? Not really, though. There are a lot more statistics that should give you courage about your chances. More than that, statistics should never define how your long-distance relationship turns out. So, if this is your first time in such a relationship, take a breather and focus less on the numbers. Getting caught up in the statistics is one way to lose before you can win.  As a man, you are going to experience the ups and downs of long-distance relationships. You’re going to wonder if she’s talking to…

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    Reconnecting With Your Ex? Here’s How Not To Get Hurt A Second Time

    September 13, 2024
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    What 16 Years as a Middle School Teacher Has Taught Me About Today’s Young Men

    August 26, 2024
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    12 Self-Improvement Techniques to Boost Your Confidence and Focus

    June 23, 2025
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    Career and Leadership

    Building Trust During A Workplace Change: Guide For Modern Leaders

    August 2, 2024 /

    Building trust in any relationship can be tough and takes time, and it’s even worse in work relationships. Ever since the pandemic revealed leaders’ ‘true colors,’ many people have had way less trust in them. As a leader, you want your employees to trust you in important moments. Some people believe that trust is not at all necessary for professional relationships. However, having someone trust you as a leader cannot lead to harm. You will feel motivated to do what’s best for them and be the leader they think you are.  In addition, studies have shown that people who trust their employers are less stressed, have more energy, and have…

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    Why A Career Swap Is Good For You: Job Hunt Differently

    June 14, 2024
    Life and Family Leadership

    A Man Worth Admiring: What One Ukrainian Grandpa Taught Me About Life and Family Leadership

    September 24, 2024
    discovering your purpose

    Discovering Your Purpose At Work Beyond Making Money

    September 6, 2024
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    Career and Leadership

    The Art of Balancing Employee Needs With Company Goals for Servant Leaders

    July 31, 2024 /

    Let’s dive into something that’s crucial but often a bit tricky to master – balancing employee needs with company goals. You’re a servant leader. That means you’re all about putting your team first, making sure they feel seen, appreciated, and catered to. It’s like being the ultimate host at a party, ensuring everyone’s having a great time. But here’s the catch – just like at any party, some folks might start pushing boundaries, and you don’t want the higher-ups thinking you’re just the “nice guy” who’s not focused on the company’s bigger picture. Being a servant leader is awesome, but it can sometimes lead to whispers behind your back –…

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    Empowering Your Team: Must-Dos For Leaders Encouraging Independence

    September 20, 2024
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    Handling Career Setbacks Gracefully: Guide to Not Falling Apart

    September 16, 2024
    people who don't like you

    How To Lead People Who Don’t Like You: Guide For Dedicated Leaders

    September 23, 2024
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    Women Supporting Men

    Giving Your Husband the Respect He Needs to Thrive (Even When It Hurts)

    July 30, 2024 /

    The old adage goes “Women most need security, and men most need respect.” It’s an outdated and somewhat black-and-white statement in some ways. Nonetheless, I find it’s true in my marriage…at least that latter half. (I feel like my greatest need is someone to unload the dishwasher, but that’s another matter entirely.) I’m a pretty headstrong woman, and I can easily hop the line to domineering. I can sling sarcasm that goes too far. I’ve had to intentionally work on that because a lack of respect in our home is detrimental to my husband’s confidence and ability to lead, which has negative effects on everyone in the home. So…why is…

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    Servanthood in Marriage

    True Love Defined by Servanthood in Marriage

    February 5, 2024
    Increasing Your Husband's Confidence

    Male Confidence: How Changing My Approach Changed My Husband

    April 1, 2024
    The Absolute Best Marriage Advice I Ever Received

    The Best Marital Advice I Received: Your Partner Is Your Ally Not Your Enemy

    April 17, 2024
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    Career and Leadership

    Picking A Team? How To Make Sure You Have The Right People In Your Corner

    July 29, 2024 /

    Do you ever wonder what was going through Nick Fury’s mind when he was picking a team? Or any other person that created something as great as the Avengers? Did they just pick people with quirky personalities who presented as misfits and hoped they would work well together? While some strategies work box-office great in movies, they do not play well in real life. And if it does, it’s rare. My point? Don’t take chances when picking a team. Remember, as their leader, their failures will be yours. Considering your failures are your own, too, it’s a lot of risk to leave it to fate and a good speech. As…

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    Transitioning Into A Leader: How to Boss on Day One

    November 21, 2024
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    Be a Better Leader Have a Richer Life!

    April 26, 2024
    leading with accountability

    Leading With Accountability: A Necessity For Great Leaders

    July 22, 2024
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