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Transitioning Into A Leader: How to Boss on Day One
So, you’ve just landed a promotion, and now you’re officially a leader. Congrats! But wait… now what? The reality of “transitioning into a leader” is starting to set in, and let’s be real—it’s kind of terrifying. One minute, you’re just one of the team, chatting at lunch and making jokes during meetings. The next, you’re in charge. People are looking to you for answers. For decisions. For leadership. And while that title sounds pretty great on paper, suddenly, you’re wondering… do I actually know what I’m doing? It’s your first day as the “boss,” and you walk into the office trying to act like you have it all together. Your…
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Developing Emotional Strength: How Faith Helps Build Inner Resilience
Life can throw us some heavy punches, and I’ve found that my faith is one of the strongest tools for building the resilience I need to get back up after a major blow. We see over and over in the Bible: men and women who faced hard, even brutal situations, but grew stronger because of their faith and God’s lovinging-kindness. When I look at figures like Moses and Elijah, I’m reminded that struggle is part of the journey and that God will lead us through the valleys and back up to higher ground. Let’s dive into how the Bible speaks about mental health and inner resilience, and how some of…
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Dealing With Depression In A Leadership Role
Dealing with depression while trying to be a strong, reliable leader can feel like a daily battle. You show up to work, you wear a confident smile, and you make the tough calls—because that’s what your team needs, right? But inside, you feel like you’re barely holding it together. You’re the one people lean on, the one who sets the tone, the one who stays positive and keeps the team motivated. But when you’re dealing with depression, keeping up that image gets… well, exhausting. If you’re reading this, maybe you know the feeling all too well. The days when just getting out of bed feels like a victory. The way…
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What Good Leaders Do When They Don’t Agree With Others
When you don’t agree with someone on your team—or even worse, with another leader or upper management—it is a real challenge. You’ve been a servant leader, putting your team’s needs first and working hard to create a positive, collaborative culture. You care about what your team members think. You listen to their ideas. And honestly, most of the time, it works. Most of the time, you’re all on the same page, or at least close enough to make things work. But then, out of nowhere, you hit a wall. You don’t agree with a key person on something that really matters, and it’s not some small difference of opinion. Nope,…
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Leadership Skills: How To Set Expectations The Right Way
Set expectations with your team—oh, the struggle! If you’re a leader who’s been at it for a while, especially if you lean towards servant leadership, you know exactly what I’m talking about. You want to empower your team, not micromanage. You want to create an environment where people feel trusted, motivated, and ready to step up. But here’s the rub: setting expectations in a way that actually sticks can be a real challenge. You probably don’t want to come across as overly controlling, but you also don’t want to be so vague that everyone’s left guessing. How many times have you thought you were clear, only to realize that somehow,…
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What the Bible Says About Marriage and How to Apply It to Your Relationship
When it comes to marriage, the Bible isn’t just a rulebook; it’s a relationship guide filled with real-world wisdom. As a man who’s been navigating marriage for 19 years (as of today actually), I know it’s easy to get swept up in modern relationship advice and lose sight of timeless principles. The Word gets a bad rep sometimes when it comes to marriage, with concepts like household leadership and submission getting taken out of context for those on both sides of the playing field. However, the Bible is full of insights that apply as much today as they did thousands of years ago, and utilizing them can genuinely strengthen your…
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Taking A Break: Why All Great Leaders Must Do It
Let’s be real—when was the last time you thought about taking a break? And I’m not talking about a quick coffee run between meetings or sneaking in a few minutes of scrolling through TikTok. I mean a real break. The kind where you really step away, recharge, and let yourself breathe. If you can’t remember the last time you did that, you’re definitely not alone. You’re juggling a million tasks—emails are piling up, team members are knocking on your door every five minutes, and there’s yet another “urgent” deadline that just landed in your lap. You’re running on coffee, pushing through back-to-back meetings, and convincing yourself that you’ll rest “once…
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Strength In The Face Of Trouble: How Servant Leaders Manage The Unexpected
If you’re a servant leader, you probably know that dealing with the unexpected is part of the job. You’re there, focused on helping your team succeed, putting their needs first, and then… bam! Out of nowhere, something you never saw coming hits. It could be a sudden crisis, like a key team member quitting right before a big deadline. Or maybe it’s something horrible like major project going sideways after months of hard work. Whatever it is, the unexpected can shake even the most grounded leader. Think of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. for a second. He was a true servant leader who faced the unexpected over and over. Every…
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Understanding The Man Who Does Not Want To Get Married
Picture this: You’re having a cozy evening with your boyfriend, maybe after a great meal or a fun date, and the topic of the future comes up. You’re daydreaming out loud, maybe hinting at that beautiful white dress and a lifetime of shared moments. And then… boom. He drops the bomb. He says, “I don’t really see myself wanting to get married.” Wait, what? Did he really just say that? Suddenly, the romantic vibes are replaced by a million thoughts racing through your mind. You’re thinking, “Is he serious? Does this mean he doesn’t see a future with me? Am I wasting my time?” And now you’re panicking. You can’t…
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Faithful Finances: Managing Money According to Biblical Principles
Money feels personal. It’s one of those taboo topics, we’re not supposed to approach in polite conversation, but it’s part of life, and it affects every single one of us. Whether you’re someone who counts every penny or just hopes there’s enough in the bank to make it to the next payday, understanding a biblical approach to finances can be life-changing. When I started looking into this topic myself, I found that the Bible has a lot to say about money—not just how we should handle it but also the attitudes we should have about it. As believers, we know that God’s ways are the best ways. They aren’t always…


























