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    Career and Leadership

    Struggling To Avoid Micromanaging? Servant Leadership is The Solution

    August 19, 2024 /

    As an employee, I always prided myself in doing things perfectly. I had a system, and it gave me results. Striving for perfection in your work is a good quality when working under someone. But when you are calling the shots, it’s one of the things that will not help when trying to avoid micromanaging. That’s what happened to me. The first time someone put me in charge of other people’s work, I became the ultimate micromanager. It’s not like I wanted to, but it was my first ‘command,’ and I wanted to make a good impression.  I wanted my superiors to know that I could lead others to do…

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  • like your friends
    The Male Mind for Women

    He Doesn’t Like Your Friends, And That’s Okay

    August 16, 2024 /

    “Do I like your friends?” He repeated the question to me. I did not need an answer after that. I mean, I had my answer when he hesitated. Plus, I could hear the lie building up in his voice. Was I okay with the fact that my partner did not like my friends? No! Should I have been? We broke up before I could figure that out. But it was not because he did not like my friends! Although sometimes that’s what it feels like you should do. I mean, The Spice Girls said it’s important for him to get with them. We can’t argue with The Spice Girls! But…

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    January 4, 2024
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    Is he Thinking About Commitment, or is it Just Me?

    July 12, 2024
    Challenges in relationships as a team

    Building A Strong Relationship: Dealing With Challenges as a Team

    March 27, 2024
  • forgiving yourself
    Vulnerability in Men

    Forgiving Yourself: Tips for Men Struggling with Being Sorry

    August 14, 2024 /

    Forgiving yourself; now that’s something I know many people struggle with. If you are anything like me, you have an easier time letting go of what people did to you than forgiving what you think you may have done wrong to yourself. Everyone receives mercy; they made a mistake, and that’s fine. But you’re different. You hold yourself to an impossible standard, beating yourself for whatever you did, focusing solely on that mistake, and questioning why you did it. Sounds familiar? That rabbit hole is tight, so you will get stuck. Men seem to need help coming out of it the most. They tend to get stuck on their mistakes,…

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    My Journey in Faith Through Christ

    My Faith Has Faced Challenges, Here’s What I’ve Learned

    April 10, 2024
    Communication in Male Friendships

    Building Strong Friendships: The Power of Talking Among Guys

    March 18, 2024
    Attachment Wounds In Men

    What I’ve Learned About Men’s Attachment Wounds As A Therapist

    February 28, 2024
  • spiritual leader
    Faith Inspiration

    How I’m Becoming the Spiritual Leader in Our Home (Despite Not Being a Natural Leader)

    August 13, 2024 /

    What does it mean to be the spiritual leader of the household? It’s something I’ve been thinking about a lot lately. If you’re a Christian, then you know that biblically men are called to be the spiritual leader of the family, but what does that entail? How do we balance implementing that God-given authority with mutual respect, kindness, and freedom? If we’re honest with ourselves, it’s a big task! Accepting a place of leadership requires a certain amount of vulnerability. Your words, actions, and decisions are on display—scrutinized by the family…and others. It can be a scary role to step into, especially if you aren’t a natural leader. In almost…

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    The Friday Before Easter

    March 29, 2024
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    5 Life-Changing Bible Verses on Healing in Romans

    January 24, 2025
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    Faithful Finances: Managing Money According to Biblical Principles

    November 5, 2024
  • build a legacy
    Career and Leadership

    Can you Build A Legacy In Servant Leadership?

    August 12, 2024 /

    As a leader, it is only natural to want to build a legacy in your role or other positions of power. Who doesn’t want a great legacy? To be the guy employees still speak fondly about even though they started years after you left the company. So, what kind of leaders build a great legacy? I bet a servant leader was not your first answer. But it’s okay; the term does not always scream ‘destined to be great’. Yet it offers a great chance to build a legacy that will keep shaping the company long after you are gone. Leaders who build legacies may not be that different from the…

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    I Can’t Forget This One Conversation

    April 6, 2024
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    December 6, 2024
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    Taking A Break: Why All Great Leaders Must Do It

    November 11, 2024
  • work engagement
    Career and Leadership

    Why Servant Leadership Is Best For Work Engagement

    August 9, 2024 /

    If you are a leader, then you have probably had your fair share of struggles with work engagement. Keeping employees engaged is not easy. And I’ll tell you right now, a pizza party is not going to cut it. Some companies keep a rather low priority for work or employee engagement. The small HR teams, low-cost solutions to employee problems, and zero effort to challenge how things have always been are dead giveaways. Despite what people think, work engagement is not an HR issue; it’s a leadership issue. Why? The way you lead sets the attitude for the whole organization and, thus, employees.  So, if you are the kind of…

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  • finding your passion
    Career and Leadership

    Finding Your Passion and Aligning it With Your Leadership Goals.

    August 7, 2024 /

    If someone had told me when I was younger that finding your passion is the key to leadership, I would have been skeptical. But not for any other reason than I thought about leadership differently back then. You can probably relate. I used to think that once you become a leader, that’s all you had to be. Your passions, values, and beliefs are replaced with what I imagined was a leadership bubble. You had to think, believe, and be passionate about what the role told you to be. I’m not sure if this is how other people viewed leadership, but when I became a leader, I realized it was wrong.…

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    August 23, 2024
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    Why A Career Swap Is Good For You: Job Hunt Differently

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  • Volunteering
    Career and Leadership

    Serving Under Stress: What Volunteering in Ukraine Taught Me About Leadership and Relationships

    August 6, 2024 /

    Volunteering in a conflict zone was one of the biggest leadership and people skills tests I have ever undertaken. My experience in Ukraine, during the first few weeks of the current war, taught me a truckload about leadership and how immense stress can be channeled into a laser-focused desire to uplift and support others. My wife and I were traveling in Estonia when the first bombs were dropped on Kyiv. We quickly decided that we had the time, abilities, and responsibility to help out in any way we could. We signed on with an American crisis relief team that my wife’s family had former affiliations with. We started as team…

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    Building Trust During A Workplace Change: Guide For Modern Leaders

    August 2, 2024
  • long-distance relationship
    Blog

    Surviving a long-distance Relationship: A Guide For Men

    August 5, 2024 /

    If you are in a long-distance relationship, then I probably shouldn’t tell you that more than 35% of them fail. Yikes, right? Not really, though. There are a lot more statistics that should give you courage about your chances. More than that, statistics should never define how your long-distance relationship turns out. So, if this is your first time in such a relationship, take a breather and focus less on the numbers. Getting caught up in the statistics is one way to lose before you can win.  As a man, you are going to experience the ups and downs of long-distance relationships. You’re going to wonder if she’s talking to…

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    The Impact of a Stepfather in the Family

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  • building trust
    Career and Leadership

    Building Trust During A Workplace Change: Guide For Modern Leaders

    August 2, 2024 /

    Building trust in any relationship can be tough and takes time, and it’s even worse in work relationships. Ever since the pandemic revealed leaders’ ‘true colors,’ many people have had way less trust in them. As a leader, you want your employees to trust you in important moments. Some people believe that trust is not at all necessary for professional relationships. However, having someone trust you as a leader cannot lead to harm. You will feel motivated to do what’s best for them and be the leader they think you are.  In addition, studies have shown that people who trust their employers are less stressed, have more energy, and have…

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    Why Can’t I Just Make a Decision? These Simple Steps Are (Slowly) Changing My Indecisive Leadership Style.

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