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The Signs of Relationship Anxiety You Shouldn’t Ignore

Whether you’ve been with your partner for a few months or a few years, there’s no shame in admitting that sometimes, things feel… off. You know, that nagging that something’s…

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February 12, 2025
Career and Leadership

The Best Leaders Are Led: Allowing Yourself To Be Guided Makes You Better At Guiding 

The best leaders have many good qualities, follow certain rules, and always make connections with those they are leading. It’s hard to imagine that one of the rules leaders must…

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October 7, 2024
Blog, Men and Stress, Vulnerability in Men

What I’ve Learned About Men’s Attachment Wounds As A Therapist

We all have an underlying core need for connection and intimacy. While fluid, the attachments we form early on with our caregivers affect our capacity for this, setting the stage…

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February 28, 2024
  • work engagement
    Career and Leadership

    Why Servant Leadership Is Best For Work Engagement

    August 9, 2024 /

    If you are a leader, then you have probably had your fair share of struggles with work engagement. Keeping employees engaged is not easy. And I’ll tell you right now, a pizza party is not going to cut it. Some companies keep a rather low priority for work or employee engagement. The small HR teams, low-cost solutions to employee problems, and zero effort to challenge how things have always been are dead giveaways. Despite what people think, work engagement is not an HR issue; it’s a leadership issue. Why? The way you lead sets the attitude for the whole organization and, thus, employees.  So, if you are the kind of…

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    The Art of Balancing Employee Needs With Company Goals for Servant Leaders

    July 31, 2024
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    Why Can’t I Just Make a Decision? These Simple Steps Are (Slowly) Changing My Indecisive Leadership Style.

    July 16, 2024
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    Taking A Break: Why All Great Leaders Must Do It

    November 11, 2024
  • finding your passion
    Career and Leadership

    Finding Your Passion and Aligning it With Your Leadership Goals.

    August 7, 2024 /

    If someone had told me when I was younger that finding your passion is the key to leadership, I would have been skeptical. But not for any other reason than I thought about leadership differently back then. You can probably relate. I used to think that once you become a leader, that’s all you had to be. Your passions, values, and beliefs are replaced with what I imagined was a leadership bubble. You had to think, believe, and be passionate about what the role told you to be. I’m not sure if this is how other people viewed leadership, but when I became a leader, I realized it was wrong.…

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    June 19, 2024
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    August 30, 2024
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    Everyday Strategies to Lead by Example at Work

    April 5, 2024
  • Volunteering
    Career and Leadership

    Serving Under Stress: What Volunteering in Ukraine Taught Me About Leadership and Relationships

    August 6, 2024 /

    Volunteering in a conflict zone was one of the biggest leadership and people skills tests I have ever undertaken. My experience in Ukraine, during the first few weeks of the current war, taught me a truckload about leadership and how immense stress can be channeled into a laser-focused desire to uplift and support others. My wife and I were traveling in Estonia when the first bombs were dropped on Kyiv. We quickly decided that we had the time, abilities, and responsibility to help out in any way we could. We signed on with an American crisis relief team that my wife’s family had former affiliations with. We started as team…

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    How Do Servant Leaders Approach Recognition and Rewards?

    August 21, 2024
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    How Leaders Can Inspire Healthy Competition Without Crossing The Line

    October 16, 2024
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    How To Lead People Who Don’t Like You: Guide For Dedicated Leaders

    September 23, 2024
  • long-distance relationship
    Blog

    Surviving a long-distance Relationship: A Guide For Men

    August 5, 2024 /

    If you are in a long-distance relationship, then I probably shouldn’t tell you that more than 35% of them fail. Yikes, right? Not really, though. There are a lot more statistics that should give you courage about your chances. More than that, statistics should never define how your long-distance relationship turns out. So, if this is your first time in such a relationship, take a breather and focus less on the numbers. Getting caught up in the statistics is one way to lose before you can win.  As a man, you are going to experience the ups and downs of long-distance relationships. You’re going to wonder if she’s talking to…

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    Fostering Open Communication in Men

    November 21, 2023
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    Forgiveness in Relationships: How to Let Go of Resentment

    February 26, 2025
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    The Best Journaling Prompts for Anxiety and Stress Management

    February 3, 2025
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    Career and Leadership

    Building Trust During A Workplace Change: Guide For Modern Leaders

    August 2, 2024 /

    Building trust in any relationship can be tough and takes time, and it’s even worse in work relationships. Ever since the pandemic revealed leaders’ ‘true colors,’ many people have had way less trust in them. As a leader, you want your employees to trust you in important moments. Some people believe that trust is not at all necessary for professional relationships. However, having someone trust you as a leader cannot lead to harm. You will feel motivated to do what’s best for them and be the leader they think you are.  In addition, studies have shown that people who trust their employers are less stressed, have more energy, and have…

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    Coping with Depression After Losing Your Job: A Guide for Men

    December 2, 2023
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    Leading With Accountability: A Necessity For Great Leaders

    July 22, 2024
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    The Ultimate Guide to Leadership Skills Smart Goals

    March 25, 2024
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    Career and Leadership

    The Art of Balancing Employee Needs With Company Goals for Servant Leaders

    July 31, 2024 /

    Let’s dive into something that’s crucial but often a bit tricky to master – balancing employee needs with company goals. You’re a servant leader. That means you’re all about putting your team first, making sure they feel seen, appreciated, and catered to. It’s like being the ultimate host at a party, ensuring everyone’s having a great time. But here’s the catch – just like at any party, some folks might start pushing boundaries, and you don’t want the higher-ups thinking you’re just the “nice guy” who’s not focused on the company’s bigger picture. Being a servant leader is awesome, but it can sometimes lead to whispers behind your back –…

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    A Man Worth Admiring: What One Ukrainian Grandpa Taught Me About Life and Family Leadership

    September 24, 2024
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    Learning From Your Mistakes As A Leader Can Be Harder But Not Impossible

    September 27, 2024
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    Women Supporting Men

    Giving Your Husband the Respect He Needs to Thrive (Even When It Hurts)

    July 30, 2024 /

    The old adage goes “Women most need security, and men most need respect.” It’s an outdated and somewhat black-and-white statement in some ways. Nonetheless, I find it’s true in my marriage…at least that latter half. (I feel like my greatest need is someone to unload the dishwasher, but that’s another matter entirely.) I’m a pretty headstrong woman, and I can easily hop the line to domineering. I can sling sarcasm that goes too far. I’ve had to intentionally work on that because a lack of respect in our home is detrimental to my husband’s confidence and ability to lead, which has negative effects on everyone in the home. So…why is…

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    True Love Defined by Servanthood in Marriage

    February 5, 2024
    The Absolute Best Marriage Advice I Ever Received

    The Best Marital Advice I Received: Your Partner Is Your Ally Not Your Enemy

    April 17, 2024
    The Impact of Stepfathers in the Family

    The Impact of a Stepfather in the Family

    March 29, 2024
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    Career and Leadership

    Picking A Team? How To Make Sure You Have The Right People In Your Corner

    July 29, 2024 /

    Do you ever wonder what was going through Nick Fury’s mind when he was picking a team? Or any other person that created something as great as the Avengers? Did they just pick people with quirky personalities who presented as misfits and hoped they would work well together? While some strategies work box-office great in movies, they do not play well in real life. And if it does, it’s rare. My point? Don’t take chances when picking a team. Remember, as their leader, their failures will be yours. Considering your failures are your own, too, it’s a lot of risk to leave it to fate and a good speech. As…

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    Travel as Education? How Travel Has Made Me a Better Husband and Leader

    July 9, 2024
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    Leading With Accountability: A Necessity For Great Leaders

    July 22, 2024
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    Building Trust During A Workplace Change: Guide For Modern Leaders

    August 2, 2024
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    The Male Mind for Women

    His Hobbies Are Stealing Him; What Do I Do?

    July 26, 2024 /

    Having some time apart to do separate things is normal and healthy in relationships. But when his hobbies take over all your husband or boyfriend’s time, it’s easy to feel left out and separated from your loved one.  Sounds crazy, right? We get so worked up about someone else stealing our loved ones from us. People rarely consider the possibility of something other than another person stealing the attention of their spouse. But it happens more often than you would think. It’s normal to be drawn to the things you like, and the same goes for your man. However, sometimes you can get lost in your hobbies for one reason…

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    The Man Cave and Alone Time for Men

    Why We Men Need Alone Time: Hint…It’s NOT You

    April 19, 2024
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    Dating An Older Guy: Understanding What He’s Expecting

    October 4, 2024
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    How To Respond When He Says He’s Fine

    November 27, 2024
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    The Male Mind for Women

    Is He Having A Midlife Crisis?

    July 24, 2024 /

    I can name at least one time when I have looked at a man and said, ‘I bet he’s having a midlife crisis.’ was probably wrong, as are many others when they talk about men going through this crisis. So, what kind of man goes through a midlife crisis? Better yet, is there any man who’s gone through it, or is it one big hoax men use to explain erratic behavior?  Some studies show that evidence for a midlife crisis does not exist. However, there is evidence of emotional turmoil among middle-aged people characterized by a strong desire for change. It can only be described as a crisis. So yes,…

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    He Won’t Discuss Money, And Here’s Why

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    Decoding Men’s Words: What He Says vs. What He Really Means

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